
1. Remember: You are on a God Hunt. You are looking for the people God wants to partner with you.
Pray
Pray
Pray
2. Never say or do anything that will tarnish the “Image of the Desired Future.”
Vision can be very easily tarnished by what we say.
When people ask questions, always answer them with pictures of the desired future.
3. Always have two or three “next steps” for this person in your mind before you begin the conversation.
• The purpose of recruiting conversations is to recruit. Many people will “buy in” in steps. So you want to have several events that could act like steps to involvement. FYI – Attending a Bible Study may be much too risky a next step.
• Next steps revolve around the bottom line rather than the event. IE: “This person needs to be exposed to the vision rather than schedule follow up meeting.” Once you identify the bottom line, you can keep chipping away at the next step until you get it done.
• Identify next steps and write them down.
For someone you meet in line at McDonalds
For a Christian you have met
For someone who has attended 3 small group meetings.
Etc.
4. Always Listen for Agenda Harmony
• Develop 3 to 5 Napkin Drawings
• Develop simple drawings that you can draw upside down on a napkin or place mat that help you describe the desired future.
• One of these drawings should be done in such a way that you can ask the person to place an “X” where they think they are at in the picture.
5. Remember: You are in Sales
• Many pastors resist this idea.
• A salesperson’s job is to introduce people to products that can be useful in their lives.
• Our product is Christ
• 4 basics of product sales -- You must:
• Know your product
• Be able to communicate your product
• Believe in your product
• Use your product.
In America, our culture expects the salesperson to ask for the close of the sale. Have confidence in Christ and ASK people to join you.
6. Attempt to keep the conversation on “YES” rather than “NO” statements
• This is a way to build trust
• Do not be phony
• Work on identifying points of agreement between you. (sports, community, children, etc.)
• It will take 5 yes’s to overcome one NO statement.
• Work the yes’s to points of agreement concerning the vision of the new church.
7. Explore the level of commitment by moving from safe to unsafe territory. Once you have found the unsafe territory, retreat one step back into safety.
• Ask questions that move from safe common ground to more vision specific ground. At some point you will probably sense the person feeling a little unsafe. At this point, acknowledge the feeling of un-safety and step back on step to safe ground.
8. Ask meaningful questions that communicate you respect this person.
Prepare a list of 25 meaningful questions you might use in a recruiting conversation.
Ask: “Hypothetical Question:
What would a new church in this community need to do in order for you to WANT to regularly give money to support its ministry?”
Ask: “Hypothetical Question:
How significant would these ministries that we just talked about concerning you giving money -- need to be for you to want to volunteer 2 to 4 hours a week to see them happen?”
9. Always ask for the person to go the next step in commitment before leaving a conversation
• Americans are conditioned for you to initiate progression. Think about how every major purchase is handled. The salesman moves us forward. We do not want to be like salesmen, but must realize that the culture expects us to believe enough in what we are doing to invite them to “buy in” at a significant cost.
• The “next step” is never the final step. Give people small significant challenges.
• Ask for one thing that is doable rather than the whole boat load which will set them up for failure.
• Keep a stack of stamped post cards with you. After the meeting, immediately address a card and write a two sentence note thanking the person for the time and affirming their next step.
10. Always ask for the names of two or three other people before leaving a conversation
If the names are at a peer level with this person, they trust you
If the names are at a subordinate level with this person, they do not trust you
If the names are at a superior level with this person, they are promoting you
11. Use a contact management system – preferable index cards rather than computer
• Put every contact on an index card – include address and phone
• Identify if they are in the Gifted, Target, Core, or Community Leader category
• Identify and note “what is the next step with this person.”
• Write dates of contact on the note card
• Pray over these cards daily.
12: Remember it is a numbers game
• For every 10 people you ask only one will say yes
• The more you ask the more who will say YES!!!
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